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原帖由 Anonymous 於 24-6-2012 01:16 發表
理性討論,
其實我d英文麻麻地,盡力去理解,可能有d雞同鴨講
我幾多歲唔係一個重點,人地肯賣都係認為我地18up
可能我呢d人已經道德倫亡,
我覺得法律set 18,咁即係普遍人都認為18以上係ok既,法律都係保護青少 ...
hah, my English is not gd either; simply too lazy to type Chinese
again, it's abt values. 我覺得18歲女同學同過18歲男同學扑都唔係問題,大家成年人,只要大家認真係有愛既,
係21世界都唔係一個問題. U and many others are free to have such view point; well, I dun totally agree with it, but I will respect ur point of view.
Yea, u r right; the society uses 18 as a watershed, but it doesn't mean we have to try everything when we r 18, right?
The society only consider us as physically matured; mature enough to bare some social responsibilities and to have a higher freedom on civil rights. But as we all will agree (I suppose), 18 doesn't mean we are mentally matured; it doesn't mean we r mentally mature enough to bare the consequences brought by our increased freedom (provided by the expected physical maturity).
Take the cases of marriage, we r given the right to get married after we are 18; but I think very few will get married at the age of 18, right? And u have to agree that most getting married at 18 is becoz they got babies; this is certainly an immature behaviour brought by two physically matured bodies. Which leads to an unplanned marriage.
Base on this point, I'd rather not agree with ur point on having sex at the age of 18, when in secondary school; even they think they are in deep love. But once again, I respect ur point of view, ur values and ur believes=]
BTW, wt if the girl thinks she love the guy so much and offer her virginty to him; two weeks later, she finds she has feelings upon another guy; she thinks they r 認真係有愛既; so they have sex....The same looped for the whole year, and before she celebrates her 19 years old birthday, she already has sex with more then 20 guys. Each relationship she thinks 認真係有愛既(so not considered as 友誼波), she offered her body. A very typical case in HK, while two physically matured but mentally immature teens meet. How do u think? Still okay? (An exaggerate example,abt the no. plz forgive me; but the nature is still the same)
Cheers (forgive my poor English
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