no offense but I would say, what u are doing are just ±»¦Õµs¹a
send ±o±¡¼¤ message, it means ur girl are not belong to you only anymore
for chinese girls, they are not as open as others and won't send ±¡¼¤ message easily
personally i think ¤À¤â(u can choose to be frds again/ even not to be frds)is better lor