個人覺得明白及遵從禮儀, 並唔係柒既表現.
相反禮儀往往充滿千錘百鍊既待人接物智慧,
例如經常提到如何同時顧及兩位或更多女仕.
ie. 同時應付太座/外母/姊妹/好友
gentleman must offer to carry a lady’s bundles.
替女仕攞野從來唔係一個問題.
但etiquette/ 禮儀唔一定係死背書,
時代會變, 死背冇意思, 最重要係去明白整個制度既意義:
A gentleman is respectful to everyone in his orbit, and he does not make people feel bad unintentionally.